It’s been a long winter, says everyone in the US. Me too. Despite my insisting for years that winter is my favorite season, that I crave the cold and dark, I’m leaving it behind this time. No more winter love from me.
This winter has been a season of mismanaged expectations. Things I thought would happen never did; things I thought would take longer happened right away. A few times I gave up on things I’d long counted on, only to have them snap open by themselves in the middle of the night like haunted books.
It feels like a Willa Cather winter. If you read My Antonia, you know what I’m talking about: a season you might not survive. Some nights I pick up her Selected Letters, heaving that brick of a book onto my stomach; it’s so uncomfortable to hold when you’re used to a tiny Kindle. (How did I manage textbooks back in the day? Are my wrists out of shape?) Still, I read on, enthralled. I’m struck by her challenges, her gifts; Willa the person, not the author. How her dimples shine through her old photos, how through her old letters I start to think of her as a friend.
I didn’t keep any letters from my childhood. These days I don’t even save emails; I’m purging things wherever I go, trying to make space for something new. I wonder, what kinds of nonfiction collections will be published in the next hundred years, since no one writes letters anymore? How will our future descendants get to know us? How will they know what our winters were like?